The post with no name

by Jude on February 24, 2012

in Head and Heart Stuff, Smart.Sexy.Paleo

You have no idea how much things have changed in my life recently, and how much I desperately need to talk about it with someone.

But not here,  and as I’ve recently discovered through reading “Gifts of Imperfection” for Melissa “Melicious” Joulwan’s virtual bookclub, I don’t even have anyone I trust enough to talk about it in my real life either.

Suffice to say, I barely recognise myself these days.

I’ve been struggling with blogging lately – and let’s face it, I’ve never been particularly good at it, either.

So here it is. Everything is changing.

In some areas of my life, I have no power over the change, apart from how I deal with it.

I’m actively seeking changes in other parts of my life. Not all of them profound.

Some people aren’t so happy that I’m making these changes. I’m not surprised. I’m not the girl I used to be. Not everyone likes that.

But, a whole lot of new people do.  More importantly, I do.

{ 7 comments… read them below or add one }

Sean February 24, 2012 at 7:58 am

Taking action…Noice


Jude February 24, 2012 at 8:10 am

I’m all about “getting-shit-done”.

Seems like a lot of effort to go to just to ditch some toxic friends though ;p


Em February 24, 2012 at 7:29 pm

Hi Judes
Well you can always talk to me. I will listen. No judgement. I promise. I know you’ve changed and I feel for the better. Because essentially this is your life and you have to live it your way. No matter what, love yourself first hey?
That’s what i’ve learnt the hard way.
I’d rather be alone than miserably sociable.


Jude February 26, 2012 at 7:55 am

I adore you and thanks for sticking through all the changes!

Honestly, I have no idea where to start these days. It’s me as much as anything else – but I know you can relate, given the big changes you’ve made. (Have I told you how proud I am of you?)



Jo February 24, 2012 at 7:59 pm

Jude. 3 things:
1. Not having known the old Jude, I can assure you the “new” Jude is totally AWESOME and GORGEOUS inside and out.
2. Anytime you want a friend to talk to, I’m more than happy to listen.
3. You are VERY good at blogging…otherwise why would we all be reading it???!!!

Good luck with the changes! xxxxx


Jude February 26, 2012 at 7:56 am

Jo. 3 things:
1. Have I told you how lucky I am to have met you? No? Well I feel bloody lucky.
2. I appreciate that and know we have enough in common in those key areas to offer the same for you. (Will be in touch about lunch this week).
3. People will read anything on the interwebs. ;p



Ems March 1, 2012 at 7:48 am

I heart you Judes x


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